In recent times the relationship between Cayetano Martínez de Irujo (61 years old) and his brothers has not been especially close and good. So much so that the Duke of Arjona has not hesitated to speak freely and very sincerely about this whole matter recently in a Mediaset program, where He wanted to confess which of his brothers he has the worst relationship with.
Cayetano Martínez de Irujo talks about his relationship with his brothers
This happened in the program 'Dinastias', broadcast on Telecinco, where the son of the Duchess of Alba commented that “Jealousy and envy are either treated psychologically or they translate into hatred“, implying that some of his brothers would have such feelings. “You can't live with hatred without having done anything for it. I just I was my mother's chosen one to run the house. That's all the wrong I did. The problem really isn't yours, it has no solution,” he continued, making it clear that he maintains “a correct and cordial relationship as far as possible with my brother Carlos. “I sat down with him and told him everything I wanted to say. I didn't get what I expected, but at least I was satisfied that he listened to me. I have a cordial relationship now and I want to keep it that way.” 
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Which brothers does Cayetano Martínez de Irujo not have a relationship with?
In this sincere and blunt interview, Cayetano also wanted to emphasize that he does not have the same relationship and the same treatment with all his brothers, there being some with whom he would have nothing to talk about at the moment: “They have managed to take Eugenia away from them. That has been a huge disappointment.. When someone does me a blatant injustice and doesn't even want to sit down and talk, for me it's over.” Although she has this bad relationship with her sister, it is not the case with Fernando Martínez de Irujo, whom she considers “good and simple” and with whom she does not seem to have had the same confrontations as with the rest of the family: “I have always lived with him. We were together since childhood, I shared a room with him,” she commented, adding that “Fernando is the only one who has remained impartial“He has loved me and continues to love me as I love him. Thank God I have a righteous brother.”
GTRES Although if there are two brothers that he did not want to name in this interview, it was Alfonso and Jacobo, with whom she has an “absolutely non-existent” relationship. Cayetano also wanted to make it clear that his intention was not and has never been to go against his brothers and family: “I'm just saying the things I've experienced, what happened and how it came about. Few people have the courage and integrity to look at themselves and work on themselves, rather than dwelling on the misery of others,” he commented, adding that he just follows his “path and takes care of my own and my family's affairs.”
Cayetano talks about his family and the famous inheritance
Cayetano, who we had not seen so open for a long time when it came to talking about his private life and that of his brothers, making it clear that the House of Alba is not exactly a normal family: “How are we going to be normal living in a palace? Life has changed in the last 15-20 years. Your ancestor did heroic things to earn that title. Either you put your titles to good use or you are nobody. With titles or without titles. 
His mother's inheritance was also very controversial at the time, as she decided to distribute some of her most precious possessions during her lifetime, something that would not have pleased everyone equally: “It went from costing 30 or 40 million euros to costing 6. That's what I did. “Whether you like it or not, whether you like it or not. Most people don't inherit anything. I don't know how you can protest so much. They should be happy,” says Cayetano, who commented that this caused him problems with his brother Carlos: “The only important thing that Carlos didn't take and that I took was the Arbaizenea Palace in San Sebastian. That increased the conflict. It was the only possession that came from my father. Everyone has had a home. The one who hasn't had it is because he had previously been given money for two or three houses.” He wanted to emphasize that his mother tried to be as fair as possible when it came to distributing her possessions, so he doesn't understand his brothers' anger: “She was clear that she wasn't going to break it. It was very fair. He had a great sense of justice. If there were no donation, we would be in an unsustainable situation for ten years. These inheritance problems continue.”
